DEAR PARISH FAMILY,
This weekend (Saturday March 22nd) St. Gabriel School celebrates their First Reconciliations, and Immaculate Heart of Mary School theirs the following Saturday (March 29th)! Please keep the children and their families in your prayers, as we ask God’s greatest blessings upon them. They are also preparing soon for their First Holy Communions, which take place by ancient custom during the Easter Season in the light of the Resurrection!
Whenever a parish has baptisms at the Easter vigil, then the 3rd, 4th and 5th Sundays of Lent will also include an ancient practice called the scrutinies. The word “scrutiny” often has a negative connotation in our society, so what does this mean? Whenever someone is in RCIA and preparing for baptism, the Church from ancient times invites them to “scrutinize” their own hearts, and search for anything they could do to better prepare themselves for baptism. The ritual celebration of the scrutinies is a short rite that primarily includes praying for those about to be baptized in a spirit of joyful anticipation and prayerful support. It is a beautiful expression of how those being baptized desire to prepare well for the Sacraments at Easter, and of how the parish community shows them love, support and welcome. We have two people being baptized at the Easter vigil, and a few more who will be received into full communion with the Catholic Church! If you know anyone interested in becoming Catholic, I would be very happy to meet with them and answer any questions they may have!
Outside our adoration chapel is a board with prayer intentions for each week. I want to thank Charlene Jobity and Jadwiga Zychowicz for their work in putting this together and helping us to have a focus on each day of the week during Lent. In fact, traditionally, each day of the week has a special devotion. Sunday: The Holy Trinity and the Resurrection, Monday: The Holy Spirit and the Souls in Purgatory, Tuesday: The Holy Angels, Wednesday: St. Joseph, Thursday: The Most Holy Eucharist (since it was instituted on Holy Thursday), Friday: The Passion, Cross and Sacred Heart of Jesus, and Saturday: The Blessed Virgin Mary and her Immaculate Heart. This is also a good reminder for us to build the habit during Lent of being mindful of these daily devotions, and showing those who are celebrated each day our extra love and devotion. This year, we are also encouraging praying for the sanctity and protection of all human life as well as conversions on Sundays, for the needs and intentions of our parish with a spirit of gratitude on Mondays, and for more religious vocations on Thursdays. When in doubt, even a Hail Mary for those daily intentions will be powerful!
We are cruising through Lent! Here are some things to think about in connection with Lent. Check out the Canadian Conference of Catholic Bishop’s (CCCB)’s “Keeping Friday” for relevant information about how Catholics observe Fridays during Lent and all year round. We also have Stations of the Cross on Friday nights at 7 PM, and Lenten Bingo! Get 5 in a row and claim your Easter prize at Easter!
Our parish is also in the final process of wrapping up our One Heart, One Soul campaign, which hasn’t yet been completed. As a result, encouraged by our parish’s Finance Council, I will be reaching out to some of those with unfulfilled pledges offering an opportunity to give before we formally close this fruitful campaign which as been a blessing to our parish. Following that, we look forward to giving a report to the parish about the success of our One Heart, One Soul campaign!
Our parish’s adoration chapel is in need of people to cover the hours of
2 AM to 6 AM throughout the week. Please ask the Holy Spirit to guide you, and if you are interested, please call Jadwiga 905-537- 0453.
On April 8th, Fr. Jeff Oehring will be here from 6-9 PM to offer the Sacrament of Reconciliation. This offers you one more chance for confessions on top of the daily opportunities for confessions, which we offer here at the parish!
On April 30th, I look forward to attending the annual Serra Club vocations dinner. It is honestly one of my favorite events of the year, where you will see our Bishops, many priests, religious, and laypeople from all across the diocese. The dinner is a fundraiser to support the Serra Club, which in turn does incredible work encouraging men and women to hear God’s call to the priesthood and religious life (for example as monks, brothers, sisters, and nuns). I will also be going to the dinner, and I’d really love for you to come with me! Please contact our parish office about tickets!
Did you know about our parish’s social media and podcast? Our parish’s social media (Facebook and Instagram) is very active and includes many interesting parish updates and even the “rap of the week.” Make sure you like and follow us. On Facebook and Instagram we are ihmchurchsc. You won’t want to miss these updates! We also have a parish YouTube account where you can watch the videos of our parish podcast!
Do you know what the “last rites” are? When a Catholic is close to death, there are a series of Sacraments and blessings that they can receive. In fact, “last rites” is more of an umbrella term for all the things we try to give someone who may be close to death. If the person is conscious, we offer them the Sacrament of Reconciliation, which wipes away their sins and brings great peace as one prepares to appear before the Lord. We also offer the Sacrament of the Anointing of the Sick, which is not limited to cases where someone is imminently dying. It brings peace, comfort, strength, and unites the sick person with the rest of the Church who prays for the sick. It also unites the sick person to Jesus Christ more deeply, who healed the sick and strengthened them. If the person is conscious and can consume it, we will then offer them the Holy Eucharist as “viaticum”, which is their last Holy Eucharist and is Latin for “food for the journey”. Then, we also give someone the apostolic pardon, which is a powerful prayer that offers a plenary indulgence to the person who is in danger of death, which removes all of their temporal punishment due to sin. All of these bring great peace and comfort to the one who receives them, and by extension, to their family and friends. This comfort comes before someone passes, but also continues after we have lost a loved one. Knowing they were prepared to go home to Heaven is an extremely comforting thought and can greatly help someone in the grieving process. The Anointing of the Sick can also be received on its own in other cases – it does not necessary mean that a person is about to pass away – sometimes God even works miraculous healings through this Sacrament. When in doubt, it is always good to have a priest connect with someone who is seriously sick, and offer them these powerful and comforting Sacraments. It is a sign of love and care to ask a priest to come to visit someone who is sick, seriously ill, or dying. Please never hesitate to reach out!
For those who are interested to know, we are currently experimenting with using a Communion plate at daily Mass. Did you know that the Church still encourages this practice? For centuries, an altar server would stand nearby to catch a consecrated host if it fell. The current General Instruction of the Roman Missal (GIRM) lists the Communion plate as something to be setup before Mass in section 118. Redemptionis Sacramentum, a 2004 document on how we celebrate Mass, also says in point 93, "The Communion-plate for the Communion of the faithful should be retained, so as to avoid the danger of the sacred host or some fragment of it falling." The Church encourages us to take care with the Eucharist and even small fragments of it. Since the sacred host has fallen on some occasions, this may help us to protect the Eucharist from falling on the floor so that we can treat the Real Presence of Christ in the Eucharist with an even greater love.
Immaculate Heart of Mary, pray for us!
Fr. Gregory Merkley
Upcoming Events (Apart from Mass and Confessions)
Upcoming Events (Apart from Mass and Confessions)
Mar 21st – 7 PM – Stations of the Cross - CWL
Mar 22nd – 10 AM – First Reconciliation for Grade 2 (St. Gabriel School)
Mar 22nd – 6:15 PM – Chosen Series, Meeting Rm 1
Mar 25th – 8 PM – Christian Meditation, Church
Mar 26th – 7 PM – St. Joseph Men’s Group in Meeting Room 1
Mar 27th No Praise & Worship
Mar 28th – 7 PM – Stations of the Cross-Deacon Joe & St. Joseph Group
Mar 29th – 10 AM – First Reconciliation for Grade 2 (IHM School)
Mar 29th – 6:15 PM – Chosen Series, Meeting Rm 1
Apr 1st – 8 PM – Christian Meditation, Church
Apr 2nd – 7 PM – St. Joseph Men’s Group in Meeting Room 1
Apr 3rd – 7 PM – Praise & Worship, Parish Hall
Apr 4th – 7 PM – Stations of the Cross - Praise & Worship Group
Apr 7th – 7:15 PM – Monthly Men’s Retreat (‘Recollection’) Church, Mtg Rm 1
Apr 8th – 1-3 PM – Craft Day - Paint Day, Parish Hall
Apr 8th – 6-9 PM — Fr. Jeff Oehring hearing Confessions
Apr 8th – 8 PM – Christian Meditation, Church
Apr 9th – 7:30 PM – Knights of Columbus Meeting, Parish Hall
Apr 10th – 7 PM – Praise & Worship, Parish Hall
Apr 11th – 7 PM – Stations of the Cross - RCIA
Apr 11th – 6:30-8:30 PM – Youth Group (10-18 yrs old) Parish Hall
Apr 12th– 6:15 PM - Young Adults Group (18-39 yrs)Church/Parish Hall
Apr 30th – Serra Club Vocations Dinner (Fr. Greg is going) – Let us know if you’d like to come!
Occasionally people have expressed curiosity about why I regularly wear a “black robe.” The “black robe” is more properly called a cassock, or sometimes from the French a soutane. I felt drawn to share some thoughts on this. As a person who believes that Jesus Christ guides the Church by the Holy Spirit, I value that the Church has much to say on this matter. Firstly, the most recent Directory for the Ministry and Life of Priests (2013) says the following:
“… For this reason the priest, like the transitory deacon, must: a) wear either the cassock “or suitable ecclesiastical dress, in accordance with the norms established by the Episcopal Conference and legitimate local customs”; when other than the cassock, attire must be different from the way laypersons dress and consonant with the dignity and sanctity of the minister; the style and the colour are to be determined by the Conference of Bishops; b) because of their incoherence with the spirit of this discipline, contrary practices are bereft of the rationality necessary for them to become legitimate customs and must be absolutely eliminated by the competent authority. Outside of specific exceptional cases, the non use of ecclesiastical attire may manifest a weak sense of one’s identity as a pastor dedicated entirely to the service of the Church.
Moreover, in its form, colour and dignity the cassock is most opportune, because it clearly distinguishes priests from laymen and makes people understand the sacred nature of their ministry, reminding the priest himself that forever and at each moment he is a priest ordained to serve, teach, guide, and sanctify souls mainly through the celebration of the Sacraments and the preaching of the Word of God. Wearing ecclesiastical attire is also a safeguard for poverty and chastity.” (bolding added)
The above norms apply to all Roman Catholic priests. This was also previously emphasized in the 1994 Directory for the Ministry and Life of Priests. Aside from the above directives, I appreciate the cassock for the fact that it is a sacramental. That is to say, like a rosary, crucifix, scapular, or other holy item, a cassock is traditionally blessed, whereas more common clerical shirts are not blessed. This makes the cassock a “spiritual shield of armor.” Many people also falsely believe that Vatican II ended priests wearing cassocks – on the contrary, not only did the council not say that, the Church has actually repeatedly called for their continued use after the council. I also appreciate therefore how the cassock is a sign of the continuity of our faith. Through the ups and downs of history, our Catholic faith remains the same in its essential teachings. “Jesus Christ is the same yesterday, today and forever.” (Hebrews 13:8) Stability of visible signs gives perceptible manifestation of the stability of our faith. The cassock is also a beautiful public witness that I am distinctly a Catholic priest, so it is easy for people to realize a priest is there to serve them in any way I can. They know they can ask me for a Confession or other Sacraments when they see me. The cassock is typically black, a color reminding all that the priest is called to “lay down his life” in service. Black is the color of death – and priests are called to sacrificially “die to themselves” in service to God and their flock. On a somewhat humorous note, I’d also add that I find the cassock more comfortable than regular clergy shirts, so that’s a bonus. A priest remains free – he may wear a cassock or another officially approved form of clerical clothing. There you have it - if you’ve ever wondered why I wear a cassock, now you know!
Adam Johnstone has been accepted into the Hamilton Diocese’s permanent diaconate formation program. Please pray for him and his family as he continues to journey towards becoming a permanent deacon!
As mentioned during December, our parish’s order of daily Mass missalettes has been discontinued. The good news is that one can easily subscribe to these resources individually at www.novalis.com. We encourage you to explore the missalettes from "Living with Christ," a valuable and accessible tool for personal use. Of course, we will certainly continue to provide our Sunday missals. If you have any questions at all, please always feel welcome to contact the parish office.
Men’s Evening of Recollection, is a spiritual/religious evening aimed at providing men with an opportunity for reflection, prayer and personal growth. We are fortunate enough to have our very own group here each month The evening involves; Exposition of the Blessed Sacrament, Preached Meditation, Silent Adoration, Examination of conscience (Confessions available), Benediction, an additional talk, followed by a get together. Join us Monday evenings beginning at 7:15p.m. Next Dates: April 8; May 12; June 9
Two new sanctuary lamps now frame our tabernacle, helping us to honor the presence of the Risen Lord Jesus in the Blessed Sacrament. From the tabernacle, the flames of the Holy Spirit shoot out to spark our spiritual life and bring new fire to our love for God and neighbour. Regarding the tabernacle, you might be interested is this excerpt from a book called Ceremonies of the Modern Roman Rite by Bishop Peter Elliot, widely considered an expert on Catholic liturgical matters.
Among many things, he writes, “whatever form the tabernacle takes, it should be veiled as the primary sign of the Real Presence. The veil may be white or preferably the color of the day or season, but never black. The veil represents the holy tent of the Lord, especially in the form of the canapaeum which covers a freestanding tabernacle. It is thus a paradoxical sign of mystery, revealing by concealing the sacred Presence of Emmanuel who “tabernacles” among us. The lamp (or lamps) perpetually burning before the Eucharistic Lord should be a living flame fed by oil or wax, but obviously not a volatile fuel. A natural flame is preferable because it signifies an offering as well as light.”
He also references the 1980 instruction Inaestimabile Donum approved by St. Pope John Paul II which notes in section 25 that, “The tabernacle should be solid, unbreakable, and not transparent. The presence of the Eucharist is to be indicated by a tabernacle veil or by some other suitable means laid down by the competent authority, and a lamp must perpetually burn before it, as a sign of honor paid to the Lord.” You may find it interesting to know that the veil that is currently over our tabernacle is at least 40 years old, and has probably been here in the parish since the 1960s. It was found as we were cleaning our storage rooms and going through items kept here at the Church. May the Holy Spirit help us to honor the Risen Lord truly present in the Most Holy Eucharist!
The talks from Fr. Gary Schlack’s Lenten parish Mission have been uploaded and can be accessed through my homilies podcast, which is accessible at www.frmerkley.com.
The Ex Corde Foundation has generously granted our parish a grant of $20,000 for the purposes of installing a new sound system. We are extremely grateful to the foundation, which was established by Bishop Crosby in 2011, and “provides financial assistance to parishes and other Catholic charities within the Diocese of Hamilton and across Canada” (from the Ex Corde Foundation website – www.excordefoundation.com). I recently applied to the foundation for the stated purposes of the new sound system, and what a wonderful Easter gift to have received! As Bishop Crosby told me when I spoke to him in person about the application, it is important to have a very good sound system because “the people need to hear the Word of God.” If you would like to sacrificially give specifically to covering the costs of a new sound system, please know the parish would be happy to receive your generosity towards this end. This project will be discussed in the near future at our next parish finance council meeting, and pastoral council meeting before any next steps are taken.
The CCCB have commented on a recent document signed by Pope Francis regarding blessings: “On 18 December 2023 the Dicastery for the Doctrine of the Faith released the Declaration Fiducia Supplicans, which responds to questions that had been raised regarding the possibility of offering blessings to persons living in irregular unions, including same-sex relationships. While explicitly affirming the Church’s traditional understanding of marriage, Fiducia Supplicans allows pastors to bless people who freely request a blessing, seeking divine help to live in fidelity to God’s will. The Declaration makes clear that such blessings must be directed to the persons themselves rather than their situation and that they must be spontaneously requested and are not ritual or liturgical actions.” (The underlining is added here for clarification.)
Bishop Crosby has graciously reduced our interest rate on our parish loan to 0% until November 30th, 2025. This will save us over $30, 000 a year. May God bless our Bishop!
Liturgical updates from our Diocese. To support a more full, active, and conscious participation in the sacred liturgy (which Vatican II spoke of), and to more fully align with the liturgical norms of the universal Church and of the Diocese of Hamilton, some small changes to our Sunday worship have taken place beginning this Advent. The changes are the result of direction from the Hamilton Diocese’s liturgy office, and they have been evaluated and discussed amongst our own parish’s liturgy committee. May the Holy Spirit and the Blessed Virgin Mary always guide how we worship our good and loving God.
Formed.org is a great website. I’d be so happy and I strongly encourage each person to explore www.formed.org, a fantastic resource for deepening your faith. Consider watching The Search (Season 1), Symbolon, and The Chosen.
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Mass Intentions:
I want to give you an update something that comes from our Diocesan chancery office. All parishes in the Diocese of Hamilton are asked to have only two multiple intention Masses each week. The Diocesan norms permit these Masses to be on any day other than Sundays. As a result, and myself having personally touched base with the chancery about this matter, our parish will offer multiple intention Masses on Tuesday night (7 PM) and Saturday night (5 PM) on a weekly basis. I think it is very important that as a parish we act in harmony with the mind of our diocesan bishop and with the rest of our Diocese, to create a family atmosphere of unity and love. Every Sunday we are also required to offer one Mass for the people of the parish (technically called a pro populo Mass, Latin for ‘for the people’). This means we offer Mass each Sunday for all of you, our parishioners! You are being prayed for both in that Mass, and in my personal prayers. Other Masses throughout the week will only be able to have one Mass intention as per our diocesan norms. Please be aware that, as at any Catholic parish, Mass intention dates and times are available on a first come, first served basis. I am thankful for your kind understanding in this regard. If you have any questions, please don’t hesitate to contact the parish office. We are always very happy to do all we can to accommodate you in this or anything else we can do to serve you! Thank you for your continued support, and may God’s blessings be upon you all.
May God bless you!
Immaculate Heart of Mary, pray for us!
Fr. Greg Merkley
